Hmm, what did I do last night? Oh my god! I remember now! Wow, I can’t believe I did that. Did s/he rape me? Was I assaulted? Or was it all a mistake? I don’t know what to think. I kinda wanted it, but I was drunk. Well legally, that’s rape. But is it?
The answer is whatever you want it to be. If you were confused and a little bit nervous, it very well could be. But don’t jump to conclusions. Just because people have horror stories doesn’t necessarily mean you have to have one too. Trust in your heart, not a slogan. If you feel confused, get professional help. Don’t talk to a friend who doesn’t know what to think, either, because you both could end up hurting worse than you did at the beginning. Thing’s aren’t that cut and dried, and often, it’s hard to know what we’re thinking. The choice of what to think is yours. You can call it a mistake. You can call it a wonderful night. The choice is up to you, not a yellow sign.